The Secret to Become a "Chill Person"
It actually just consists of two simple principles.
1. Take yourself seriously in private
Keep learning & practicing. Be competent at something. Channel your energy to create & build something sick. Consume all kinds of knowledge from business to fiction. Improve your physical, mental, social, and financial health. Learn how to talk, listen, and shut up. Study how the world works so you know what to care and not care about.
2. Don't take yourself seriously in public
The world isn't centered around you, so don't make everything about you. Keep your private life where it belongs. Stop trying to sound smart. Don't give advice unless someone specifically asks you. Let people make jokes about you. Let people doubt you. Most people only know you by a small fraction of your life so let them judge you. Relax.
Now you know how to be a chill person 🥶😎